What Parenting Programs Are Designed To Do Facts taken from How to Evaluate Parenting Program by Ronald Jay Polland PHD Myths and misconceptions about parenting programs They are only for people who do not know anything about parenting ID: 581154
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POWER SOURCE PARENTING
What Parenting Programs Are Designed To Do
Facts taken from “How to Evaluate Parenting Program”
by Ronald Jay Polland, PH.D.Slide2
Myths and misconceptions about parenting programs
They are only for people who do not know anything about parenting.
All parents can find something of value in parenting programs. They provide practical and timely advice to all parents who want to keep pace with their ever-changing teen. Slide3
They are only for parents who have bad kids.
Perfect children and perfect families only exist in movies and on television. Parenting programs recognize this fact and are designed to offer sound, practical advice for the majority of parents and the majority of kids. Slide4
They are mainly for parents who have young kids or babies.
If it seems like most of the books and programs on parenting deal with young kids and babies, you are right. One reason is because the early years of a child's life are the most important for establishing a sound foundation. Slide5
They are not in touch with reality.
This is not the 50’s. 60’s, 70’s, 80’s, or the 90’s
Good parenting programs are ones that are both reality-based and up-to-date on what is happening with today's families and teens. Slide6
They treat parents like they were kids in school
Most parenting programs are educational programs. Some educational programs have been adapted from school-based programs. Some educational programs are often taught by school teachers (who may be more used to working with kids than with adults). These programs could cause parents to feel as if they are back in school that may not be a good thing. Slide7
They take too much time to complete
Typically parenting programs cover such things as improving parent-child communication, setting limits, teaching responsibility, encouraging self-esteem, promoting values, and facing a whole host of challenges from teenage sexuality to drug and alcohol abuse.
These are areas that take some time to cover effectively. Parenting programs may run for several weeks or months at a time and last anywhere from one to two hours per session for up to twelve sessions. Slide8
They do not affirm my cultural values
Most authors tend to write about the culture they know best. Because it is the predominant culture in this country, most authors of parenting programs and books write about white, middle-class families. As a result, some parenting programs may not be sensitive to the cultural differences of minority populations. Slide9
They do not work
Effective parenting programs provide a range of ideas (both new and old) that have been tested and proven to work with today’s children and teens. Like any new skill, practice makes perfect. Parenting programs encourage but cannot control how often a parent will practice putting new skills into use. Again, what you get out of it is what you put into it. Slide10
Reaching parents
"where they are at"
Successful parenting programs give parents an opportunity to learn new information and skills that fit with their existing beliefs about parenting and communication.
Programs that allow parents to relate new ideas with existing ideas and beliefs will have better results than programs that treat parents as "blank slates." Slide11
Involving and empowering parents in the program
Getting parents to discuss their own personal experiences is a good way to have them think about their own ideas and beliefs about parenting. Long-term, parent discussion groups are an effective means for changing values and teaching styles. Slide12
Making the program culturally and socially relevant
Critics of "typical" parent education programs feel they disregard the existing beliefs and practices of a community and try to impose the dominant, middle-class cultural standards of parenting. One way a program can avoid pressuring parents to change is to use respectful and sensitive professional educators and group leaders who are aware of the social, financial, and emotional stresses that parents have.