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Darcy W Hardy,PhDApril 18, 2013#

Got Cyber Etiquette?Slide2

What is Cyber Etiquette?(also called Internet Etiquette, iEtiquette

, Netiquette, Technology Etiquette, Digital Etiquette, etc.)

Netiquette

/net-i-

ket

/, Noun: 1. The social code of network communication. 2. The social and moral code of the internet based on the human condition and Golden Rule of Netiquette. 3. A philosophy of effective internet communication that utilizes common conventions and norms as a guide for rules and standards.

www.networketiquette.netSlide3

What is Cyber Etiquette?

Manners applied to the Internet and the use of technology in everyday situations.

Two examples of breaches of technology etiquette are checking email messages in meetings or taking cell phone calls during business lunches.

- computer.yourdictionary.comSlide4
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Facebook basicsDo not post private matters. Call rather than message extremely personal matters.When someone posts a question, respond if appropriate.

Avoid posting comments on every post.

Be careful of your tone.

Don’t try to friend someone you don’t know.

Do not tag your friends in an unflattering photo.

Don’t overshare, personally or professionally.

No flaming.

Do NOT repost or re-tweet chains

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Oh Rick…Slide8

Unwritten Rules, WrittenSTOP.WITH.THE.SELFIES.The untag

button is your friend.

Profile pic vs. cover pic shelf lives – who knew?

ONE status update per day and no bad statuses.

Don’t advertise “it’s complicated.”

Keep comments to a minimum.

Don’t comment unless you actually know him/her.

Don’t poke.

Don’t chat me if we don’t talk in real life.

http://totalfratmove.com/1099124Slide9

The oldest adage, revisited

If you don’t have anything

nice

that anyone else will give a shit about to say, don’t say anything at all. And for heaven’s sake, don’t like your own status.

http://totalfratmove.com/1099124Slide10

Facebook Post Causes Woman To Attack Her Boyfriend With A FurbySlide11

Speaking of PhotosPeople do not want to see:Multiple PDA photos

Tons of blurry vacation photos

What you are eating/are about to eat/have eaten

Inebriated people

Shirtless people – men OR women

Endless baby pictures

Profile pictures of pets, cartoon characters, or anything that isn’t the person in the profile

Duck faceSlide12
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Texting – familiar?

OMW

IIRC

CU

B/F

LTNS

WB

B4

FYEO

PPL

BRB

POS

WTG

BBL

HRU

SPST

IMHO

NOYB

BFF

TAFN

OMG

B4N

AFAIK

M8

RL

TTYL

ADP

GL

IAC

JK

BC

UL

BF

KIT

NMP

BS

D/L

OTW

TMI

L8

WTH

OTL

FWIW

GTG

STR8

AAP

LOL

GR8

B4

NBD

GB

ATM

TBD

BBL

OP

MF

RTFM

CYA

WK

GF

OIC

NM

TTFN

PLZ

WTF

BTW

IDK

BOL

WTS

IRL

DIKU

AFK

JKBNR

THX

HAGS

RSN

ROTFL

CYA

IRC

OIC

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Linguistic miracle? 22 million texts a day across the worldTexting – not a written languageTexting is “fingered speech.”

LOL now represents much more than Laugh Out Loud

Julie: Just missed my flight. LOL!

Susie: LOL, oh no!!

We don’t speak the way we write and vice versa:

It was so great to see you today -



John McWhorter – TED2013

The linguistic miracle of textsSlide15

DYACSlide16

Bad signs

Digital

Dirt (self-incrimination)

Terrible Troll

(annoying posts everywhere)

Big

Mouth (trashing the past)

Copious Contacts and

Comments (sketchy people and trashy posts)

Positively

Negative (I hate everything)

mindflash

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Social

ScreeningSlide17

Who’s Looking? 45% of employers use social media sites to screen applicants (one survey by Microsoft says 70%)Facebook – 29%

LinkedIn – 26%

Twitter – 7%

Blogs – 11%

f

acebook

vs. twitter damage control

Mindflash.com-

Social Screening

, 2011Slide18

What are they finding?35% negativeProvocative/inappropriate photos/content

Alcohol and drug use

Bad mouthing

Poor communication skills

Discriminatory comments

Lies about qualifications

Confidential information about previous employers

Mindflash.com-

Social

Screening

, 2011Slide19

Only 18% PositiveGood feel for personalityTruth about qualificationsCreativity

Solid communication skills

Well-rounded

Good references from others

Awards and accolades

Mindflash.com-

Social

Screening

, 2011Slide20

Can facebook get your fired?

Five employees fired from this:

“Lydia Cruz, my coworker feels that we don’t help our clients enough at [work]. I about had it! My fellow coworkers how do u feel?”

Hispanics United of Buffalo –

12.14.12:

NLRB and administrative law judge concluded that “the employees’ Facebook comments amounted to concerted activity protected under Section 7 of the NLRA.”

-socialnetworkinglawblog.comSlide21

Nick Bilton – What did he say?Slide22

What really got people going…“My father learned this lesson last year after leaving me a dozen voice mail messages, none of which I listened to. Exasperated, he called my sister to complain that I never returned his calls. “Why are you leaving him voice mails?” my sister asked. “No one listens to voice mail anymore. Just text him.”

My

mother realized this long ago. Now we communicate mostly through Twitter

.”

-Nick

Bilton

Disruptions: Digital Era Redefining Etiquette

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Bashing NickMy heart breaks for this man's father. SHAME SHAME

ON YOU.

Get over

yourself.

Maybe

Mr

Bilton

ought to listen to the song, "Cats in the Cradle

."

[Your father] should

have called your sister and told her how rude and what a butt you are and that he was writing you out of the Will yes said writing not texting or emailing but writing.Slide24

On the other hand…“As a 17-year-old, it’s kind of frustrating to read the comments here and find them all made by condescending older folks who don’t seem to get the gist of this article. As a society, we communicate a lot more than we used to (or, at least, the younger half of us do). We’re constantly in touch with each other, via text, e-mail, Facebook, whatever. If we don’t use these tools efficiently, they will consume huge portions of our time

.”

-Jake

Soiffer

,

Brooklyn Slide25

Academia “Oh, the irony. It seems particularly ironic that academics, who make a living talking and hoping someone is paying attention, no longer think it is important if they themselves pay attention.” (Essig

, Chronicle, 2.27.13)

Writing Across the Curriculum - model

Policies and rules that are student driven.

Sexting

…men vs.

women

Help students understand the risks.Slide26
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And just one more…Slide29

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