Erica Brown Prayer We pray for Gods protection As our children go to school Help them to remember To obey the Golden Rule As they pledge their allegiance May they understand The stars and stripes are symbols Of Gods blessing on our land ID: 485538
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DLG 6.3
Erica BrownSlide2
Prayer
We pray for God's protection, As our children go to school. Help them to remember To obey the Golden Rule.
As they pledge their allegiance May they understand, The stars and stripes are symbols Of God's blessing on our land.
We ask for good direction. Guide them as they grow. When they face temptation Give them power to say, "No!"
Give us strength, as parents, To be what we should be. There is nothing more important Than a healthy family tree.Slide3
Parent-Adult Child Relationships
The relationship a child experienced with his/her parents puts a profound influence on that person
Good Relationship
Bad RelationshipSlide4
Activity
In your tables make two lists. One list that shows what parenting ways you would like to use if you have children from your parents. The other list shows what parenting ways you would NOT use from your parents. Then talk about how they have effected you and made you a certain way.Slide5
Parents Disapproval of Child’s Partner
The parent doesn’t like the person their son or daughter has chosen
The parents feel the other person has a problem
The other person is different from the parent’s family
Significant age difference
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person has been married before
Too much in a hurrySlide6
How Parents Show Disapproval
Object, criticize, adverse influence, taking sides in disputes
How to get parents approvalSlide7
Child’s Identification with Parents
Positive Identification: the attachment of the child to images of desired loving behavior
Negative Identification: an effort to avoid being like the parent Slide8
Interdependence b/w Generations
Families taking care of their elderly
Putting elderly in nursing homes or assistant living
Not an easy decision to put elderly into a home
Families actually visit frequentlySlide9
Mother-Daughter Relationships
Married women usually see their mothers more than married sons.
Daughters with children are more likely to contact their mother and not mother-in-law
Mothers sometimes criticize their daughters for the way their daughter keeps the house or her cookingSlide10
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Mother-Dependent
High-Reciprocity
Low-Reciprocity
Daughter-DependentSlide11
In-Laws
Disagreements with in-laws are most common in early years of marriage
Study shows In-laws are influential in the overall success of the marriage
In-laws can cause hostility and stress b/w spouses who have emotional loyalties to their own families.
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Helpful Extra Scholarly Readings
http://roa.sagepub.com/content/14/3/291.
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http://link.springer.com/article/10.2307/2061714#page-
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