Chapter 4 Myths and Realities Myth Beauty is only skin deep People would not consider a person competent just because he or she is good looking Reality Unfortunately attractive persons are expected to be more capable than unattractive ones at most tasks This may explain the research fin ID: 576867
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Society
Chapter 4Slide2
Myths and Realities
Myth:
Beauty is only skin deep. People would not consider a person competent just because he or she is good looking.
Reality: Unfortunately, attractive persons are expected to be more capable than unattractive ones at most tasks. This may explain the research finding that people considered “good looking” earn more than those viewed as “homely,” even though both groups have similar education and employment experiences (p.77)
Myth:
Most students identify strongly with their role as students
Reality: Most students are not deeply committed to their role because many other roles—as friend, date, leader, or athlete—compete for their time (p.79)Slide3
Myths and Realities
Myth:
In the Middle East, the religions of Jews and Arabs are so different that they have hardly anything in common.
Reality: Since the Jews, who founded Judaism and Christianity, and the Arabs, who founded Islam, used to be pastoral people, we can find in each religion the image of a god who looks after his people, in the same way that a shepherd looks after his flock (p. 83) Slide4
3 Perspectives
Functionalist
Conflict
Symbolic
InteractionistSlide5
Functionalist:
Society operates like a prison, but with popular consensus
This is positive so that people aren’t “out of control” or breaking laws
Elements of social control all around us (
ie
: police, laws, others) Slide6
Conflict
We are controlled or prisoners of society and it is negative because the powerful place control on the powerless
1% controls, 99% follows against their own choice
False consciousness: the belief that justifies their domination by the ruling class to the detriment of their own interestsSlide7
Symbolic Interactionist
Humans interact with each other by actively and creatively interpreting each other’s
actions.
As creators of society, we exercise considerable freedom when we interact with
others.
Don’t believe people are
imprisoned.
We present our “self” in a way to make the other person have a desirable (positive) impression of
us.Slide8
Social Interaction in Everyday Life
Chapter 6Slide9
Myths and Realities
Myth:
To avoid misunderstanding, especially in conversation with foreigners, it is always wise to say directly what’s on our mind, such as saying “yes” to mean “yes.”
Reality: Directness in speech may be good for transmitting information, but
indirectness
is common in many other countries. The Japanese, for example, may say “yes” to mean “no” when asked “Would you agree to do business with us?” This is their way of trying to save others from disappointment or embarrassment (p.127)
Myth:
All over the world it is natural for people to nod their heads to mean “yes” and shake them to mean “no.”
Reality: Body language varies from one culture to another. In the US, we nod our heads to mean “yes” and shake them to mean “no”. But in Bulgaria, head nodding means “no,” and head shaking means “yes” (p. 127-128)Slide10
Myths and Reality
Myth:
Because they speak the same language, men and women can easily understand each other.
They are likely to use the same language differently: men for the purpose of giving
information
; women for
expressing feelings
. Thus, men tend to misunderstand women by taking literally what women say, and women tend to misunderstand men by reading emotional meanings into what men say (p. 130)
Myth:
The person we interact with, just like anything else “out there,” is absolutely real.
Reality: That person is real only because of being
defined
by others as such. Thus, people may appear to interact with the same person, but actually they are interacting with their own
images
of the person. Since this image tends to vary from one person to another, it is not surprising that different people appear to interact differently with the same person (p. 137) Slide11
Social Interaction
the process by which individuals act toward and react to others.
Stereotypes anyone?
You are familiar with how strong first impressions are and the way they set the tone for interaction. When you first meet someone, you cannot help but notice certain highly visible and distinctive features, especially the person’s sex,
race,
age, and clothing. Despite your best intentions, your assumptions about these characteristics
shape
your
first impression—and, in turn, how that person acts toward you.Slide12
Kinesics
“body language”, the use of body movement as a means of communication
(smiling=happy, cheering at a game=excited/enthusiastic) Slide13
Proxemics
the use of space as a means of communication
(hugging=someone we feel comfortable with, shaking hands=introduction) Slide14
Genderlects
linguistic styles that reflect the different worlds of women and men
Example…
*Men: checking with wife before making plans - may be seen as “having to ask for permission”. Men may see this as him giving up independence and admitting to his friends that he actually does check with his wife before making plans
*Women: checking with husband before making plans – may be seen as reaffirming that she’s involved with someone and concerned with their communication.
Women: “We never go out!”
Translation: “I feel like going out and spending time with you”
Men: Response - “that’s not true, we went out last week!”
Translation: “she’s wrong, we do go out!”
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Social Construction
Social construction of
reality:
the
process by which people create through social interaction a certain idea, feeling, or belief about their environment.
Thomas Theorem
:
”If people define situations as real, they are real in their consequences.” In other words, people are able to turn their socially constructed inner reality (perception, idea, belief, attitude, or feeling) into a socially observable outer reality (behavior, action, or activity).
Examples
… Slide16
Constructing Reality Examples
If people believe God exists, God is just as real to them as humans, things, ideas, and other features of their social and physical world. People will
act as if God is real
by worshiping God.
If people believe they will become successful in the future, they will
do something
to make it real
, such as by working hard, which will likely lead to success.
This second example suggests two ways in which situations defined as real are real in their consequences: working hard
now
and achieving success
later
. This is why the Thomas theorem is sometimes called the self-fulfilling prophecy. Slide17
Functionalist Perspective:
Supportive Interactions
From the functionalist perspective, we can see two types of supportive interactions:
exchange
and
cooperation
.
Exchange
an interaction in which two individuals offer each other something in order to obtain a reward in return.
Cooperation
:
an interaction in which two or more individuals work together to achieve a common goal. Slide18
Conflict Perspective
Oppositional Interactions
Oppositional interaction can be
competition
or
conflict
.
Competition
:
an interaction in which two individuals follow mutually accepted rules, each trying to achieve the same goal before the other does.
Conflict
:
an interaction in which two individuals disregard any rules, each trying to achieve the same goal before the other does. Slide19
Symbolic
Interactionist
Perspective
Interpreting Interactions
Symbolic
interactionists
believe that we can learn a lot about interaction by analyzing people’s interpretations of each other’s actions.
Interpreting Supportive Interaction
:
“supportive exchanges,” “mutual dealings,” etc.
(
ie
: congratulations at marriage, condolences at funerals, inquiring about another’s health…)
To
symbolic
interactionists
, these acts should
not
be taken at face value because they are not what they appear to be
.
When people ask us “how are you?” they are not really interested in finding out the condition of our health in the same way that our doctor is. Instead, they might mean “I want to be your friend,” or they are simply trying to be polite, etc. Slide20
Continued
Interpreting Oppositional Interaction
:
While supportive interaction usually involves individuals of about the same social status, oppositional interaction is more likely to involve people of different statuses.
A higher-status person tends to be disrespectful to the lower-status person. (
ie
: interaction between a customer and a restaurant employee, interaction between men and women in a sexist society, etc.). Slide21
Stand Up!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZZ7k8cMA-
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As you watch the video interact as the audience would. If the speaker gives you a directive…do as
your told.