aan die verslaafde Pastorate to the addict Mat 91113 En toe die Fariseërs dit sien sê hulle vir sy dissipels Waarom eet julle Meester saam met tollenaars en sondaars 12 Maar toe Jesus dit hoor sê Hy vir hulle Die wat gesond is het die geneesheer nie nodig nie maar ID: 496218
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Pastoraat aan die verslaafdePastorate to the addictSlide2
Mat 9:11-13
En toe die Fariseërs dit sien, sê hulle vir sy dissipels: Waarom eet julle Meester saam met tollenaars en sondaars?
12
Maar toe Jesus dit hoor, sê Hy vir hulle: Die wat gesond is, het die geneesheer nie nodig nie, maar
die wat ongesteld is
.
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Maar gaan leer wat dit beteken: Ek wil
barmhartigheid
hê en nie offerande nie; want Ek het nie gekom om regverdiges te roep nie, maar
sondaars tot bekering
. Slide3
Johannes 8:32 En julle sal die waarheid ken, en die waarheid sal julle vrymaak.
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Hulle antwoord Hom: Ons is die geslag van Abraham en het nog nooit vir iemand slawediens verrig nie; hoe sê U dan: Julle sal vry word?
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Jesus antwoord hulle: Voorwaar, voorwaar Ek sê vir julle dat
elkeen wat die sonde doen, ‘n
slaaf
van die sonde is. Slide4
Wye verskeidenheid verslawings
Dobbel
Alkohol
Dwelms
PornografieSuksesSportEet ………
Christene
?Slide5
Verbreekte verhoudingsGod Medemens
Skepping
Die
oorsprong
van verslawingPyn, leegheid
plaasvervangende
oplossing
Gewoonte
/
afgod
verslawing
Skuld
en
skaamte/ ontrekSlide6Slide7
Snellers : val
Skuld en skaamte – dieper val
Desperaat
Bekering
Vasbyt
Sirkelgang van verslawingSlide8
Red Flag/TriggerWarnings!
Aloneness
, fear, anxiety, self hatred, worthlessness, inadequacy, shame, stress,
fatique
, boredom etcHungryHungryAngryLonelyTired
Triggers
Emotions
BeginningSlide9
Red Flag
Reflex
Conditioned response to emotional pain
Faulty belief system
Impaired thinkingTruth/LieIn the mindSlide10
Red FlagReflex
Reaction
Need to detach from painSlide11
Red FlagReflex
Reaction
Give mind over to obsessive thoughts of escape
Detach from pain
by attaching to another emotion
You can live in this stage!!
Preocupation
Despair
DespairSlide12
Preoccupation
Despair
Ritualization
Habitual routines leading to comfort behavior.
Think about what you have done and are going to do
commitment
Acting out: Taking hold of lesser desire;
Remove pain? Empower?; Feel better than to face reality? Am I better able to love God?
Punish
Deserve to be punished
Red Flag
Reflex
Sin Cycle
The Sin cycle
White knuckleSlide13
Red Flag
Reflex
Reaction
Never addresses the triggers
Simply leaves one still in painTherefore leads back to preoccupationPreoccupation
Despair
Saying "No!"
Law Cycle
The Law cycleSlide14
Preoccupation
Despair
Despair
Saying "No!"
Law Cycle
Ritualization
Habitual routines leading to comfort behavior.
Think about what you have done and are going to do
commitment
Acting out: Taking hold of lesser desire;
Remove pain? Empower?; Feel better than to face reality? Am I better able to love God?
Punish
Deserve to be punished
Red Flag
Reflex
Sin Cycle
FormalisticSlide15
Preoccupation
Despair
Despair
Saying "No!"
Law Cycle
Ritualization
commitment
Punish
Red Flag
Reflex
Action
Conscious choice in response to reflex
Saying "Yes"
To being known by God and Christ's body
Ritualization
Confess
Be known
Choose forgiveness
Choose love/worthinessSlide16
Red Flag
Action
Conscious choice in response to reflex
Saying "Yes"
To being known by God and Christ's bodyRitualizationConfess
Be known
Choose forgiveness
Choose love/worthiness
Commitment
Leef
as
oorwinnaar, vervuld met die Gees
Hope
The Grace cycleSlide17Slide18
Snellers : val
Skuld en skaamte – dieper val
Desperaat
Bekering
Vasbyt
Sirkelgang van verslawingSlide19
Snellers : val
Skuld en skaamte
Desperaat
Bekering
Verbly
Die
liefde
van God en
gelowiges
Accountability partner
Identifiseer
-
voorsorg
Vader, Seun en Heilige Gees
Accountability partner lei
jou
na
die
drie-enige
God