Rev Dr Danny L Boyd 2015 Holy Convocation June 26 2015 TOPICS CHURCH PROTOCOL CHURCH ETIQUETTE CHURCH ETHICS CHURCH DISCIPLINE Let all things be done decently and in order 1 Cor 1440 ID: 472878
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Church Protocol and Etiquette
Rev. Dr. Danny L. Boyd
2015 Holy Convocation
June 26, 2015Slide2
TOPICS
CHURCH
PROTOCOL
CHURCH ETIQUETTE
CHURCH ETHICSCHURCH DISCIPLINE
“Let all things be done decently and in order”
(1 Cor. 14:40)Slide3
Subsets of Theology
Pastoral theology
- Pastoral ministry to individuals
Practical theology
- Christian practicesMoral theology- Ethics Deontology – The study of ethics through moral obligation and right actionSlide4
Local churches exist in order to fulfill a threefold purpose:
W
orship God in spirit and truth,
E
dification and encouragement of the body of believers,And to fulfill the Great Commission – “Make disciples of all nations.”Slide5
Church is more than a building, corporation, or organization.
It’s a living organism!
Diverse community
We’re all related because of the blood of Jesus Christ
Christ paid a debt He didn’t owe … one we could not pay.Jesus has a right to lay down rules for his church.The Holy Scriptures are our rules to guide the church.Slide6
How should we maintain the church?
The church is the most important place where dignity, protocol, respect and reverence should be maintained. Why? Because when we come to the church and its services, we are entering into the Kingdom of God on earth, His habitation, and we choose to honor this sacred place by our attentiveness to what is proper and ordered. At that very moment, we have the opportunity to reflect the image of Christ within us by our actions.
Protocol
Dignity
Reverence
RespectSlide7
Let’s reflect the image of Christ within us by our actions.
But ye
are
a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of Him who hath called you out of darkness into His
marvellous light.
1
Peter 2:9Slide8
Key terms
Behavior
We are to live for Christ, not for ourselves (2 Cor. 5:15).
Jesus told his disciples
to teach people "to obey everything I have commanded you" (Matthew 28:20).RespectTo view or consider with some degree of reverence; to esteem as possessed of real worth.Slide9
Key Terms
Integrity
First
, integrity is “the condition or quality of being complete; undivided or unbroken; wholeness.” Second, integrity is “an unimpaired condition.” The third definition is, “moral soundness or uprightness.”
PracticesForms of doing; to continually do something to get better at it.MannersRequire you to discipline yourselfSlide10
Key terms
Equality
The belief that all people are the same before God and in Christ.
Reverence
The quality that guides one’s behavior – quietness, attentiveness, and dignity are key ingredients.DignityNobleness or elevation of mindValuesThose things that are important to you.Slide11
What is the purpose of the church?Fellowship
To learn and instruct about Jesus
Gain and give strength for the next week
To give and get guidance for issues of life
Tell of God’s goodnessSlide12
CHURCH PROTOCOL
A code
of courtesies, proper practices, set of rules regarding church worship service
. “Let all things be done decently and in
order.” (1 Cor. 14:40)ORDERObedience +
R
ules +
D
irection +
E
xcellence =
R
esults Slide13
Worship
Worship is a sacred opportunity to
draw closer to God
through Jesus Christ. “Enter his gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! Give thanks to him; bless his name!” —
Psalms 100:4For us to worship God in spirit and in truth we must make sure we obey all of His commandments as given by Him in the Bible on how He is to be worshipped. Worship is the central act of the people of God, as well as at RZUA Churches Worship is the adoration of God through lifestyles, through reading and hearing the Word of God, singing in praise of
God,
and talking and listening to God through prayer.Slide14
WorshipBefore service we speak to
God.
During service God speaks to
us.
After service we speak to each other! Slide15
CHURCH PROTOCOL
Call to Worship
- the opening of the worship experience;
Invocation – a prayer asking God’s help as part of the service. HymnOpening hymn - song of praise to GodDoxology - beginning or the end of worship serviceTypes of hymns: worship; adoration; guidance; renewal; aspiration
Responsive reading
A scriptural
reading designed
to allow the congregation to read and be
with the
word of God.Slide16
CHURCH PROTOCOL
Prayer
– spiritual communion with God
Types of prayers: supplication (plea); thanksgiving; adoration; and confession
Addressing the house - respect and honor our leaders, such as our Presiding Bishop.Welcome/Announcements - An “intermission” in worship to make worshippers aware of activities, events, and
concerns.
Offertory
- participate in giving. Slide17
CHURCH PROTOCOLSermon
- divine
activity in
which the Word of God is
proclaimed or announced. Invitation to Christian Discipleship – individuals are invited to be a part of the household of faith.Altar Call -
An invitation to the congregation to express personal concerns by means of the people assembling at the altar and kneeling to pray.
Benediction
- a prayer that God may bestow certain blessings on His people. It is important to receive the benedictional prayer. Slide18
When to Stand and Why
Doxology
- Always
stand in reverence to God when the Doxology is played.
Call to Worship – Standing allows us to participate in the purpose of our coming together.Responsive Reading - We stand in respect of the reading of God’s word.Offertory – Stand to
participate
in giving.
You
only sit if
a tray is passed to collect
the
offering.
The Invitation to Christian
Discipleship – Standing demonstrates our
agreement with the spirit of God and the invitation to be a part of God’s family.Accepting Jesus Christ as your personal Savior –LoveSlide19
If you must walk during service …
Never walk
In
front or across the front of the altar
or the pulpit area during worship During scripture readings or prayer. During communion
***If
you are walking and someone begins to read the scripture or begins to pray,
STOP AND STAND UNTIL THEY ARE FINISHED!
Walk during
S
inging by
the choir
Offering
Announcements
**Reminder! When you move : Do not pass in front of the pulpit Use the side aisles and the side doors Do not run, but walk No
TalkingSlide20
CHURCH ETIQUETTE
Church
etiquette -
is a set of rules that govern behavior in the house of God. Etiquette deals with the outward behavior. The second most important commandment next to loving God is found in Matthew
22:39, “Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.” Proper etiquette helps worshippers engage in reverent and respectful behavior.Slide21
Teaching church etiquette to children
Don’t assume teens know what behavior you expect in church, teach them.
The best way to teach them is by modeling appropriate behavior.
Step 1
The basic tenet of etiquette is to act respectfully and interact politely with others. Step 2Instruct your teenager about the holiness of the church building, specifically the sanctuary. Slide22
Teaching church etiquette to children
Step 3
Encourage punctual behavior from a teenager when attending church.
Step 4
Talk about appropriate dress and appearance in church. Step 5Teach your teen to leave gum, beverages and food at home or in the car. Step 6Model self-control and self-restraint for your teen. Slide23
CHURCH ETIQUETTE
Turn off all digital
devices,
especially cell phones.
Govern yourself accordingly during worship service. No eating, talking loud, foolish conversations,
or excessive walking.
E
xhibit
respect in your wardrobe choices.
Avoid cliques.
Observe
worship service schedules.
Don’t be the “arrive late and leave early” member
.
If
an emergency arises, exit the sanctuary with discretion. Be considerate of others if you have small children. Slide24
CHURCH ETIQUETTE
Sit close to the door to facilitate quick and easy access to the bathroom.
Speak words of encouragement. Remember, the tongue is dangerous.
Think of others first.
Be hospitable and friendly.
Do not be boastful, arrogant or loud. Let your deeds speak for
themselves
.
Listen before speaking.
When you give your word or promise something, please fulfil it.
Do not criticize or complain. Slide25
CHURCH ETHICSEthics
Right or wrong
To behave ethically is to do what’s right
Reflect who the person is – conduct, innermost thoughts, speaking, lifestyle
Ministerial EthicsReligious code of behavior grounded in biblical truth
Persons called to preach the gospel should exhibit godliness and integrity
Virtuous vs sinful behaviorSlide26
The Christian Church
Must be committed to vigilance in all of her relationships:
In
Relationship to
Christ - honor and exalt
Jesus Christ in
all of our relationships and ministries.
In Relationship to
Fellow Members
-
We
will “... make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.” (Romans 14:19)
In
Relationship to Other Churches
- We will attempt to maintain honorable relationships with other churches in the community.In
Relationship to the Community - We will endeavor to keep our dealings with agencies, businesses and individuals in the community honest and above reproach. Slide27
The Christian Church
In Relationship to the Conference
M
embership in the RZUA Conference is not only a privilege, but also involves responsibility.
We will fulfill our fellowship, ministry and financial obligations to the best of our ability. We will uphold the doctrines and principles of the Conference. Slide28
The Christian Church
In Relationship to the Pastor and Other leaders of the Church
We will love, honor and submit to our pastor and other spiritual leaders as they, by example and word, watch over our souls.
We will support the pastor financially so that s/he may be able to meet his/her obligations.
We will not allow anything among us that would undermine the pastor.
We will endeavor to respond to all criticism dealing with the pastor, other spiritual leaders, or their families in an honorable manner.Slide29
Congregational Ethics
"...
lead a life worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, making every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."
Ephesians
4:1-2Slide30
CHURCH DISCIPLINEDiscipline – exercise of authority given to the church by the Lord Jesus Christ to instruct, guide and promote its purity and welfare.
Discipline, when
practiced
in a spirit of grace and acceptance, will have life transforming power.
Rom 15:14 mentions various types of discipline: reproof, rebuke, admonishment. Slide31
Basis for disciplineThe Lord disciplines his children (
Heb
12:6)
Holy character of God (1 Peter 1:16)Church discipline should be patterned after the divine commands of the Scripture.
The church must behave differently than the world in order to maintain credibility and authenticitySlide32
Purposes of Discipline
To bring glory to God and enhance the testimony of the
flock.
To restore, heal, and build up sinning
believers.
To protect the church against the destructive consequences that occur when churches fail to carry out church
discipline.
To set an example for the rest of the body and promote
g
odly
fear (1 Tim. 5:20
).
To silence false teachers and their influence in the church (Tit.1:10-11
).
To produce a healthy faith, one sound in doctrine (Tit 1:13; 1 Tim 1:19-20
).Slide33
Steps of Discipline
Seek
private correction
and/or
reconciliation with the offender. (Matt 18:15)
If
the 1
st
step fails, take witnesses to strengthen the effect of the
discipline,
preferably spiritual leaders, so
if
it has to be brought before the whole church it can be firmly proven and established. (Matt 18:16-17)
If
the 2
nd step fails,
seek reconciliation and restoration through the whole body. If further action is necessary, it is to be taken before the whole church. (2 Thes 3: 14-15; Matthew 18:17; 1 Tim 5:20)Slide34
Procedures for Restoration
As members of the body of Christ, we
must learn to
understand, protect, rebuke and
forgive one another. (Luke 17: 1-4)
Understand
- Jesus
said that we can count on man to let us down
. People will make mistakes.
Man is not perfect, but Jesus is.
Protect
– We should not aid in the sin of others. Lead by example. “
You
know whom you
see,
but you don’t know who sees you.” Rebuke – If thy brother trespasses against thee, rebuke him … literally means if he “sinned against thee.” Forgive
– If he repents, forgive him. Slide35
Conclusion
Lead by example
Showing respect is never wrong
Doing right never goes out of style
You are showing respect to GodYou are responsible for your actions
Think about it!Slide36
Zion, let’s be ALIVE in the power of God
A
dore
God
Love everybody, all people
I
nvest
in God’s work
V
alue
God’s word
E
xpand
God’s kingdomSlide37
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