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Healthy Relationships
Chapter 6 Communication
Slide2WARM UP
Turn to page 4 in your packet. Please fill out this worksheet to the best of your abilities. Once you are done talk to the people around you to compare answers.
Slide3Effective Communication
Communication is
the process of sharing information, thoughts, or feelings.
4 skills:
“I” Messages:
statement that
expresses your feelings, but does not blame or judge the other person.
Ex: you can say to a friend, “I am upset that we didn’t talk last night.”
Slide4Communication Skills Cont.
Active Listening: your full attention on what the other person is saying and letting that person know you understand and care. Ex: Show your interest by looking at the person. Then, encourage the speaker to begin speaking.
Slide5Assertiveness.
When you are assertive, you are able to stand up for yourself.
Slide6Body Language
Definition: includes posture, gestures, facial expressions, and body movements.Ex: Most Americans expect you to make eye contact, or meet their gaze, when you talk with them.But in some cultures, making eye contact in some situations is a sign of disrespect.
Slide73 THINGS THAT PEOPLE LOOK FOR IN FRIENDS…
honest reactionsencouragement during bad timesunderstanding when they make mistakes
Slide8QUALITIES
LOYALITY: “BEING TRUE AT ALL TIMES..”Ex: If we’re loyal, we won’t tear a friend down behind her back or share her personal story without her permission. It’s easy to gossip or pass judgment; it’s much harder to keep silentHONESTY: “TRUTHFUL, NO MATTER THE COST.”EMPATHY: is the capacity to recognize emotions that are being experienced by another sentient or fictional being.RELIABILITY: Able to be trusted, predictable and dependable
“True friendship cannot be built on false images. We must be true to ourselves”
Slide9Problems
1. Envy2. Jealous3. Cruelty4. Manipulation
Slide10What can you do?
Support Be AvailableListen to themDon’t JudgeStay in touch
Slide11“
Mom-can I talk with
you? There’s a dance I really want to go to…If I follow the rulesall week until Friday and if I help pay for a babysitter would you let me go?…”
“Mom-Can I go to the dance
on Friday”
“No—I need to to babysit your brother.”
“
How come Janis gets to go and I
don’
t get to? That’s not fair!
”
“Because she follows the
family rules
and you don’
t.
”
“
What does that have to do with any-
thing. Why can’t she babysit?
You
always
pick on me,
you
favor her,
you
always make me babysit…
”
Stomp off to room and slam door…
Slide12CONFLICT RESOLUTION SKILLS:
In a conflict you often don’t get what you wanted because you: 1. Don't stay calmor2. You lose sight ofthe outcome you wanted…
Slide13Pair / Share:
What’s wrong with
being passive?What’s wrong with being aggressive?
Slide14Video:
<https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r5tjGncByqg
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Slide15I Statements Worksheet (completed in packet)
Slide16Resolving Conflicts worksheet
Slide17Things you can learn while Dating
1. His or Her Personality2. Interests and hobbies3. Skills and abilities4. Values and Beliefs
Slide18Dating Violence
Define: It is a pattern of emotional, physical, or sexual abuse that occurs in a dating relationship. One partner tries to gain control over the other…Cycle Of Violence: (Repeats over)a tension-building stagea violent episodea calm or “honeymoon” stageComplete activity( Groups of two)
Slide19Examples of Stages
Slide20Warning Signs
Your date is jealous when you talk to others.You date makes all the decisions.Your date has a history of bad relationshipsYou feel isolated from your friends and family..You feel less self-confident
Slide21Definitions
Emotional Intimacy:
The openness, sharing, affection, and trust that can develop in a close relationship.
Two Skills
: 1. Communication (I messages) 2. Same Interests
Abstinence:
The act of refraining from, or not having, sex.
Skills Include
:
1. Setting clear limits
2. Communicating your limits
3. Avoiding high-pressure situations
4. Asserting yourself
Slide22Violence
Is the threat of or actual force against oneself or another person. Violence often results in injury or death. Hazing: Is requiring a person to do degrading , risky, or illegal acts in order to join a group.
Slide23Stopping the Violence!!
Hazing
Prevention can be established with strict school policies and enforcement from school teachers and Administrators.
Bullying
Don’t make jokes at others expense or single out a person for exclusion. Don’t reward a bully with laughter or other positive attention.Speak up. Silence is seen as approval.Don’t believe rumors and don’t spread rumors.
Slide246 rules for mediating a conflict
1.Stay calm2. Choose the time and place carefully for the confrontation. 3. Don’t use put downs. 4. Allow each person to state his or her view of the problem. 5. Identify solutions6. Conclude with a resolution