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Exploring Attachment through an Adlerian perspective. Slide2
Attachment influences a variety of perceptual and relational elements of the human condition and is considered a fundamental component in personality development. This is a brief exploration about how perceptions associated with early attachments influence relational choices today. Slide3
Learning Objective 1: Participants will understand how Bowlby's work in Attachment is directly connected to Adler's original work in family constellation, birth order, and family influence.
Learning Objective 2: Participants will gain tools for working with individuals who suffer from relational discomfort and dysfunction.
Hopefully, we will accomplish…Slide4
Attachment
theory
Thanks
to the
work of John Bowlby and the contributions
of Mary Ainsworth,
attachment theory has
become widely regarded as
one of the
best supported
theories
of socio-emotional development available.
“Attachment behavior is any form of behavior that results in a person attaining or maintaining proximity to some other clearly defined individual who is conceived as better able to cope with the world”
(Bowlby, 1988).Slide5
It
is most obvious whenever the person
is…
frightened
fatigued
sick
assuaged
by comforting and care giving.
At
other times the behavior is less evident. Nevertheless for a person to know that an attachment figure is available and responsive gives him/her a strong and pervasive feeling of scrutiny, and so encourages him to value and continue the relationship. Slide6
While attachment behavior is most obvious in early childhood, it can be observed throughout the life cycle, especially in emergencies.
Since it is seen in virtually all human beings (though varying in patterns), it is regarded as an integral part of human natureSlide7
Attachment behavior in differing circumstances may be shown to a variety of individuals, an
enduring attachment
, or attachment bond, is confined to very
few (close friends, family,
etc
).
Disturbance within the individual may be indicated
when there is
a failure to show such a clear discrimination. Slide8
Attachment vs. attachment behavior
Attachment
—the disposition to seek proximity to and contact with a certain individual during certain specified conditions.
Attachment behavior
—refers to any of the various forms of behavior that the person engages in from time to time to obtain and/or maintain a desired proximity.
Attachment theory attempts to explain both attachment behavior, with its episodic appearance and disappearance, and also the enduring attachments that children and other individuals make to particular others.Slide9
Concepts influencing the development of Attachment theory:
Separation Anxiety:
anxiety about losing, or becoming separated from, someone loved. Separation anxiety is seen as a basic human disposition. Threats of abandonment create intense feelings of anxiety and anger, especially in older children and adolescents.
The function of anger may be to dissuade the attachment figure from carrying out the threat (which can easily become dysfunctional).
Inverted attachment relationship: In some cases, a mother, having grown up anxiously attached as a result of a difficult childhood, may begin seeking to make her own child her attachment figure; further requiring the child to care for his/her own mother. Slide10
Mourning:
While separation anxiety is the usual response to a threat or some other risk of loss, mourning is the usual response to a loss after it has occurred.
Two early schools of thought regarding mourning:
Helene Deutsch (1937) posited that due to inadequate psychological development, children were not able to mourn
Melanie Klein (1940),
asserted that not only
can
children mourn, they doSlide11
Defensive Processes:
“Detachment”—the disappearance of certain attachment behaviors toward an attachment figure that reappears after a period of time. (Example: deactivation of attachment behaviors when a child is injured in the absence of an attachment figure.)Slide12
Behavior can be purposeful
“A child’s strong propensity to attach himself to his mother and his father, or to whomever else may be caring for him, can be understood as having the function of
reducing the risk of coming to harm
. For, to stay in close proximity to, or in easy communication with, someone likely to protect you is the best of all possible insurance policies. Similarly, a parent’s concern to care for his or her offspring plainly has the function of contributing to the child’s survival.”
(Bowlby, 1988)Slide13
Internal Working Models
Attachment theory posits a contextual lens through which the family of origin in seen as a primary source for internal models of attachment
Bowlby’s contentions regarding internal working models are somewhat prophetic as internal complex behavioral systems and adequately developed internal working models enable individuals to more accurately predict future interactions with the environment
(Bretherton , 1988a)Slide14
Internal Working Models
Attachment theory postulates that in order for an individual to effectively and efficiently activate and deactivate the attachment system, he or she must develop internal working models of attachment figures as well as internal working models of the self interacting with those
figures.
(Bowlby, 1988a
)Slide15
Internal Working Models
As products of attachment-related experiences, it has been theorized that internal working models are grounded in the same cognitive processes that create or construct
schemata
for organizing and processing
information.
(
Fiske & Taylor, 1991
)Slide16
Internal Working Models
Internal working models of attachment, however, are thought to also include affective, defensive, and descriptive cognitive components
(Ainsworth, 1989; Main, Kaplan, & Cassidy, 1985).
These working models, therefore, may consist of accumulated knowledge of the self, attachment figures, and prior and current attachment relationships
(Sperling & Berman, 1994).Slide17
Internal Working Models
Internal working models of attachment are grounded in an individual’s prior history of attachment relationships
(
Peluso
et al., 2004;
Sperling
& Berman, 1994)
and when adequately developed, can enable an individual to accurately predict outcomes of future interactions with similar attachment
relationships.
(
Peluso
et al., 2004;
Bretherton
, 1995; Ainsworth, 1985
)Slide18
Internal Working Models
Attachment theory postulates that in order for an individual to effectively and efficiently activate and deactivate the attachment system, he or she must develop internal working models of attachment figures as well as internal working models of the self interacting with those
figures.
(Bowlby, 1988a
)Slide19
Adult Attachment
Sperling and Berman (1994) defined adult attachment
as…
…the stable tendency of an individual to make substantial efforts to seek and maintain proximity to and contact with one or a few specific individuals who provide the subjective potential for physical and/or psychological safety and security. This stable tendency is regulated by internal working models of attachment, which are cognitive-affective motivational schemata built from the individual’s experience in his or her interpersonal world. (p. 8)Slide20
Adult Attachment
Sperling
and Berman further asserted that attachment theory resonates with psychodynamic theory in its fundamental belief that “one’s earliest experiences of relationships are formative in later life” (p. 5), and serves as a point of resonance with the Adlerian perspective on early
recollections.
(
Manaster
&
Corsini
, 1982;
Ansbacher
&
Ansbacher
, 1956
)Slide21
Attachment Patterns
When considering the representational basis of attachment processes, Sperling and Berman (1994) contended that “attachment theory integrates concepts from cognitive theory with emotion and childhood experience” (p. 12), and that longitudinal research on attachment has documented stable patterns of behavior ranging from 1 year to at least age 10.Slide22
Attachment Style
Further,
Sroufe,
Egeland
, and Kreutzer’s (1990) results suggest that children’s behavior at school, at home, and in social circumstances can be predicted by their attachment style.
Furthermore
, Main, Kaplan and Cassidy (1995) found that a child’s attachment style is consistent with parenting characteristics and parental attachment style.Slide23
Attachment Style
During the last decade, attachment theory has been applied primarily to the study of adults’ intimate relationships, and various approaches to the measurement of adult attachment revealed varieties of content and assumptions
(Feeney, Noller & Hanrahan
, 1994).
Among
the various approaches,
Hazan and Shaver’s (1987) three attachment styles (Secure, Avoidant, and Anxious/Ambivalent) have dominated current views.Slide24
Attachment and AdlerSlide25
Attachment and Adler
The
major areas of convergence between Attachment theory and Adler’s work are
that
both include
a
rational
and stable view of the self and the
world and
that both acknowledge the importance of social
interaction.
(
Peluso
, 2004)Slide26
Adler theorized that there is a strong connection between an individual’s private logic (often developed by age 6), lifestyle, and his/her place in the world.
(Kern &
Peluso, 1999; Peluso, 2004)
This perception was not developed in isolation and was greatly influenced by early family experiences.
(Adler, 1964)
Internal Working Models???
Attachment and AdlerSlide27
The importance of social interest development has a strong connection to an individual’s private logic and ultimately his/her style of life.
Social Interest – innate ability for individuals to connect to-, find purpose, and contribute to the larger community.
Individuals do not exist within a void – early family experiences significantly influence the formulation and development of private logic and social interest.
(Kern &
Peluso
, 1999;
Peluso
, 2004)
Attachment and AdlerSlide28
Social interest and attachment style similarly impact an individual’s development and are both dependent on interactions between the child and family members within the constellation (positive or negative).
(Shulman and Watts, 1997)
Internal Working Models???
Attachment and AdlerSlide29
There is a plethora of research that confirms that a link exists between secure attachment styles in children and characteristics of strong social interest (social competence, friendship quality, empathy, etc.)
(
Kestenbaum et al., 1989; S. Shulman et al., 1994; Suess et
al
., 1992; Verschueren et al., 1996).Slide30
Tasks:
Identify client’s individual perception about his/her early relationships (family of origin, friends, etc.)
Help client identify and clarify similarities between early childhood experiences and his/her perceptions today.
Counselor UtilitySlide31
Counselor Utility
Early recollections – What do they tell us?
Relationship with…MomDad
Mom and Dad (together)
Siblings
Birth order – (Psychological)
Perceived role served within the constellation – including possible changes in that roleSlide32
Associate ERs with functioning today…
Relationships at…
WorkLeisureRomanticCurrent family (including constellation)Family of origin – continued role – how it affects his/her relationship with partner and children
Counselor UtilitySlide33
Role of the Counselor
Normalize the challenges with emotional
connection/reconnection
Provide basic parenting skills
Help the family to create shared meaning
Share handouts, books, & resources that normalize the family’s experience
Help the family to create a coherent narrative
Help the children to communicate their experiences
Encourage the family to create a scrapbook
to
create a coherent family
story (shared visual schema)
(Bowling
& Sherman, 2008)Slide34
Five Therapeutic Tasks
(Bowlby, 1982)
A therapist applying attachment theory sees his role as being one of providing the conditions in which his
clients
can explore his representational models of himself and his attachment figures with a view to reappraising and restructuring them in the light of the new understanding he acquires and the new experiences he has in the therapeutic relationship.
(Bowlby, 1988)Slide35
Five Therapeutic Tasks
(Bowlby, 1982)
In order to help the client to work toward this end, the therapist should attempt the following five therapeutic tasks:
Provide the client with a secure base from which he or she can explore his or her past.
Assist the client in exploration by encouraging him or her to consider, the ways in which he or she engages in relationships with significant figures in his or her current life and expectations for his or her own feelings and behaviors. Slide36
Five Therapeutic Tasks
(Bowlby, 1982)
Encourage the client to examine the relationship between client and therapist.
Encourage the client to consider how current perceptions, expectations, feelings, and actions may be the product either of the events and situations encountered during childhood and adolescence especially during childhood.
Enable the client to recognize that the images of self and others might be from past painful experiences and misleading messages. Slide37
Gottman’s
7 Principles for Making Marriage Work
Enhance your love mapsNurture your fondness and admiration
Turn toward each other instead of away
Let your partner influence you
Solve your solvable problems
Overcome gridlock
Create shared meaning
(
Gottman
& Silver, 1999)Slide38
Bids for Attention
Bids for attention come in a variety of styles-some are more easy to recognize than others. Bids can be
Verbal/nonverbal
Physical/Intellectual
Sexual/nonsexual
High or low energy
Funny or dead serious
Questions, statements, or comments
Can include thoughts, feelings, observations, opinions, and invitations
Some nonverbal bids can include affectionate touching, facial expressions, playful touching, affiliating gestures, and vocalizing (i.e. laughing, grunting, sighing or groaning).
(
Gottman
&
DeClaire
, 2001, p.30)Slide39
Gottman’s
Four Horsemen
CriticismContempt Defensiveness
Stonewalling
(
Gottman
, 1994)