PPT-Habit #5 Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood

Based on the work Stephen Covey Listening Road Blocks Spacing Out Your mind wanders when others talk Pretend Listening You dont really pay attention to the other person but you pretend to You say yeah uhhuh and cool. Mt. 7:7-11. Ask, Seek, Knock. God’s promises are sure. He cannot lie, . Heb. 6:18. His word is truth, . Jn. 17:17. We can depend on Him. Mt. 7:7-11. Ask, Seek, Knock. Jesus said God will respond. Not mocking us. People want to be understood. You want to be understood, don’t you? You know how frustrating it can be when people don’t understand you, no matter how hard you try, over and over again.. Habit 5 is about this phenomenon: Seek first to understand and then to be understood. And as with all of the habits, this one not about learning a new trick or a set of techniques. The habits are about changing paradigms, about changing the beliefs you have about the topics of the habits. This habit is about communication, effective interaction between people.. Breaking and Making. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2H4l9RpkwM. Examples of Bad Habits. What are your bad habits?. A Few Bad Habits…. Not asking for help when you know you need . it. Letting one dark cloud cover the entire sky.. of . Highly Effective Teens. What does each . teen represent . in the picture have in common???. ANSWER(S):. Each person in a picture has been . judged by you . based on your 1. st. impression. (…. Maurice Sample. Eve S. What is habit?. Habit is a persons ordinary, regular, and nearly automatic response to a repeated situation.. Habit is closely related to character. Character is a generalized description of one’s disposition, or of one’s disposition in respect to a general trait such as honesty or peacefulness, while habit is more specific in describing ones regular response to a repeated situation.. Get in the Habit. 7 habits of highly effective teens. or. The 7 characteristics that happy and successful teens all over the world have in common. Habit #1. Be Proactive. Take responsibility for your life. “Shutting Out the Light” Political Cartoon . Distribution of Personal Income Earned by All Americans in 1929 Chart/Graph. Primary Sources . “He smiled understandingly-much more than understandingly. It was one of those rare smiles with a quality of eternal reassurance in it, that you may come across four or five times in life. It faced–or seemed to face–the whole eternal world for an instant, and then concentrated on you with an irresistible prejudice in your favor. It understood you just as far as you wanted to be understood, believed in you as you would like to believe in yourself, and assured you that it had precisely the impression of you that, at your best, you hoped to convey.”. Ferdinand de Saussure (1857-1913), linguist. Claude Levi-Strauss (1908-2009), anthropologist. Roland Barthes (1915-1980), literary critic. Take a well-known media text. Let’s say, . The Dark Knight. October 4, 2013. Rena’ Herbert. Presentation Objectives:. Identify the four basic types of communication.. Examine the importance of “character” as an influence.. Explain the statement diagnosing before one prescribes.. Will and Won’t Power. Let’s face it….teens are busy people. There doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day to get everything done that you need to do. . Habit 3, Put First Things First, can help. . Then to Be Understood. You have TWO Ears. And one Mouth…. Hel-lo!. Before I can walk in another’s shoes, I must first remove my own.. What does the above quote mean?. Read p. 164. You can’t trust people who give you solutions before they understand what your needs are.. Habit 1: Be Proactive You take responsibility for your life . Being proactive is more than taking initiative. It is accepting responsibility for our own behavior (past, present, and future) and making choices based on principles and values rather than on moods or circumstances. FOUNDATION. Sow a thought, reap an action;. Sow an action, reap a habit;. Sow a habit, reap a character;. Sow a character, reap a destiny.. . - Samuel Smiles. Study. NJ . AAP Chapter . Webinar. January . 2020. Howard Dubowitz, MD, MS, FAAP. Professor of . Pediatrics. SEEK and Primary Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect. Primary Care: . An Opportunity to Promote Children’s Health, Development and Safety.