Body Language and Facial Expression - PowerPoint Presentation

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Body Language and Facial ExpressionSlide2

You have about 4 seconds to make a good

first impression

on those you come in contact with.

In the first four seconds, people often make spectrum judgments about you and tell themselves:I will (or will not) trust this person. I will (or will not) like this person. I find this person kind (or not). I find this person intelligent (or not). Slide3

You can't make a good first impression through your words alone. In fact,

nonverbal communication

represents between

60 to 75% of your communication. Nonverbal communication includes: Body movements and posture

Gestures

Eye contact Facial Expressions Touch SpaceSlide4

Body movements and posture

Consider how your perceptions of

other people

are affected by the way they sit, walk, stand up, or hold their head. The way you move and carry yourself communicates a wealth of information to the world. This type of nonverbal communication includes your posture, stance, and subtle movements.Slide5

What can we tell from the posture and movements

of these people?Slide6

Gestures

Gestures

are woven into the fabric of our daily lives. We

wave, point, get people’s attention, and use our hands when we’re arguing or speaking animatedly—expressing ourselves with gestures often without thinking. However, the meaning of gestures can be very different across cultures and regions, so it’s important to be careful to avoid misinterpretation.Slide7

What can we tell from the gestures of these people?Slide8

Eye contact

Since the visual sense is dominant for most people,

eye contact

is an especially important type of nonverbal communication. The way you look at someone can communicate many things, including interest, affection, hostility, or attraction. Eye contact is also important in maintaining the flow of conversation and for gauging the other person’s response.Slide9

What can we tell from eye contact given by these people?Slide10

Facial Expressions

The human face is extremely

expressive

, able to express countless emotions without saying a word. And unlike some forms of nonverbal communication, facial expressions are universal. The facial expressions for happiness, sadness, anger, surprise, fear, and disgust are the same across cultures.Slide11

What can we tell from the facial expressions shown by

these people?Slide12

Touch

We communicate a great deal through

touch

. Think about the messages given by the following: a firm handshake, a timid tap on the shoulder, a warm bear hug, a reassuring pat on the back, a patronizing pat on the head, or a controlling grip on your arm.Slide13

What can we tell from the way touch is used in these photos?Slide14

Space

Have you ever felt uncomfortable during a conversation because the other person was standing

too close

and invading your space? We all have a need for physical space, although that need differs depending on the culture, the situation, and the closeness of the relationship. You can use physical space to communicate many different nonverbal messages, including signals of intimacy, aggression, dominance, or affection.Slide15

What can we tell from the way space is used in these photos?Slide16

Every

action

- even the smallest micro-action - communicates information to people who then make judgments about you

based on what you have communicated non-verbally. You could be making the most wonderful compliments or praise to people, but it's difficult to gain their trust if your words contradict your body language.

Being aware of how your actions and body communicate is part of being a good SOCIAL THINKER.Slide17

Using body language and nonverbal communication successfully

Nonverbal communication is a

rapidly flowing back-and-forth process. Successful nonverbal communication depends on:1) being aware of your own emotions;

2)

understanding the cues you are sending;3) picking up on the cues others are sending you.

This

requires your

full concentration and attention

.

If

you are planning what you’re going to say next, daydreaming, or thinking about something else, you are almost certain to miss nonverbal cues

in a conversation

. Slide18

Tips for successful nonverbal communication:

Take a time out if you’re feeling overwhelmed by stress.

When you’re stressed out, you’re more likely to misread other people, or send off confusing nonverbal signals.Take a moment to calm down before you jump back into the conversation. Once you get your emotions back under control, you’ll be better

able

to deal with a situation in a positive way. Slide19

Tips for successful nonverbal communication:

Pay attention to inconsistencies.

Nonverbal communication should reinforce what is being said. If you get the feeling that someone isn’t being honest or that something is “off,” you may be picking up on a mismatch between verbal and nonverbal cues.Is the person is saying one thing, and their body language something else? For example, are they telling you “yes” while shaking their head no? Slide20

Tips for successful nonverbal communication:

Look at nonverbal communication signals as a group.

Don’t read too much into a single gesture or nonverbal cue. Consider all of the nonverbal signals you are sending and receiving, from eye contact to tone of voice and body language. Are your nonverbal cues consistent—or inconsistent—with what you are trying to communicate? Slide21

Evaluating your nonverbal communication skills

Eye contact

Is this source of connection missing, too intense, or just right in yourself or in the person you are looking at?

Facial expressionWhat is your face showing? Is it masklike and unexpressive, or emotional and filled with interest? What do you see as you look into the faces of others? Posture and gestureDoes your body look still and

frozen,

or relaxed? What do you observe about the degree of tension or relaxation in the body of the person you are speaking to? Do you use body movements and gestures to indicate that you are listening to the other person? TouchRemember, what feels good to one person may not to another. What is your comfort level? Is the difference between what you like and what the other person likes obvious to you

?

Space

Are you standing too near or too far from the person you’re communicating with? Are you invading anyone’s

bubble of space

?

Intensity

Do you or the person you are communicating with seem flat, cool, and disinterested, or over-the-top and

intense?

Timing and pace

What happens when you or someone you care about makes an important statement? Does a response—not necessarily verbal—come too quickly or too slowly? Is there an easy flow of information back and forth?