41014 What Motivates Us Sex Sex People say sex is their favorite activity They rate it higher than sports hugging and kissing eating going on trips shopping etc The average American devotes 4 minutes and 3 seconds to sex per day ID: 554947
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Slide1
Intro to psych4/10/14
What Motivates Us: SexSlide2
Sex
People say sex is their favorite activity
They rate it higher than sports, hugging and kissing, eating, going on trips, shopping,
etc
The average American devotes 4 minutes and 3 seconds to sex (per day)
What does this tell us?
1) People don’t actually spend that much time on sex
2) Regardless of how much time we spend on sex, it’s hugely important in our lives
Everything
follows
from it: marriage, family, children, some aggression, competition, art & music
If we were a creature without sex, everything would be differentSlide3
Sex
The very existence of sex is a mystery
Many animals have just one sex, and reproduce by
cloning
But complex animals (like humans) have two
sexes
To reproduce, each animal gives half its genes to its
offspring
It’s a puzzle how multiple sexes ever evolvedSlide4
What are we going to talk about
?
How and why males and females are different
What people find sexually attractive
What are the origins of sexual preference?
Sex is difficult to talk about
Very emotional and intimate part of life
Lots of moral implications & consequencesSlide5
Morality & Inevitability on Evolution, Sex & Gender
Biologists argue that sexual behavior, action, & desire are a biological adaptation that exists for us to be able to spread our
genes
By this definition, non-procreative sex does not serve the reproductive goal and may be considered unnatural – Does this mean it’s wrong
??
If sex for reproduction has evolved out of natural selection, does this make it good/moral/inevitable?Slide6
Morality & Inevitability on Evolution, Sex & Gender
“
Nature does not dictate what we should accept or how we should live our lives. Well into my procreating years, I am so far voluntarily childless, having squandered my biological resources reading and writing, doing research, helping friends and students, and jogging in circles — ignoring the solemn imperative to spread my genes. By Darwinian standards, I am a horrible mistake, a pathetic loser, but I am happy to be that way, and if my genes don't like it they can go jump in the lake
.” – Steve PinkerSlide7
Morality & Inevitability on Evolution, Sex & Gender
What is the point of this quote?
Certain things we do exist to serve natural selection
But that doesn’t make them right
If you think that something is only right if it leads to reproduction, then you’re probably not going to think very much about birth control
If you think something is wrong if it’s unnatural, then you’ve got some strong beliefs on flying in a plane, or refrigerating your food, or surviving a severe infectionSlide8
Morality & Inevitability on Evolution, Sex & Gender
Our bodies & brains have
evolved
for reproductive success
But we also use our brains to choose our own destinies
Keep morality in mind as we discuss different claims about what has evolved & what hasn’t
But what about inevitability?Slide9
Morality & Inevitability on Evolution, Sex & Gender
“If
a child has had bad teaching in mathematics, it is accepted that a resulting deficiency can be remedied by extra-good teaching in the following year. But any suggestion that the child's deficiency might have a genetic origin is likely to be greeted with something approaching despair. If it's in the genes, it is determined and nothing can be done about it. This is pernicious nonsense on an almost astrological scale. Genetic causes and environmental causes are in principle no different from each other. Some may be harder to reverse, others may be easy. What did genes do to deserve their sinister, juggernaut-like reputation? Why are genes thought to be so much more fixed and inescapable in their effects than
television
or
books?” – Richard DawkinsSlide10
Morality & Inevitability on Evolution, Sex & Gender
The point: What causes something to be is logically separate from what can reverse it
Genetics that can be reversed
Example: My bad eyesight
It’s bad because of my genes; my mom’s side has terrible eyesight
But it’s easy to fix – glasses and contact lenses
Biologically caused but easy to fix
Cultural and hard to reverse
Example: the way society treats obese people
How thin or how fat you think someone is
is
not genetic
It varies a lot from culture to culture
But once it is part of the culture, it’s very hard to get rid ofSlide11
Basic Sex Ed
What’s the difference between male & female?
Penis & vagina?
Nope – there are some animals that have neither one
Definitions:
Male: possess a small sex cell that carries genes and nothing else (sperm cells)
Female: possess a big sex cell that carries genes and food and has a protective covering (egg)Slide12
Basic Sex Ed
Why is it that the animal with the tiny sex cell is typically larger and more aggressive than the animal with the larger sex cell? Slide13
Basic Sex Ed
“Parental Investment”: Any investment that will increase an offspring’s chance of survival at the cost of the parent’s ability to invest in other offspring
Typically with mammals, females have a much higher parental investment
Female Parental Investment: carries a fetus inside her, nourishes it with her blood (for many months), nurses and protects it until it has grown big enough to fend for itself (for years)
Male Parental Investment: a few minutes of copulation and a tiny sperm cellSlide14
Basic Sex Ed
This leads to the evolution of different psychologies in males and females
Males:
A single male can fertilize several females, which forces some males to go
mateless
Those who mate with as many females as possible will have the most reproductive success, and the genes that allow them to do so will be passed on to future generations
Females:
Females can always find mates, so numbers don’t matter
Those who mate with the
right
males, those whose offspring have the best chance of surviving, will have the most reproductive successSlide15
Basic Sex Ed
The competition to find the
RIGHT
mate explains the size puzzle
Males are typically larger because they have to compete with other males to mate with a certain female
Females are choosy! Only the best mate for me!
Males have to compete to woo the female so, often, males evolve special displays which exist only to be beautiful and to be attractive to and attract matesSlide16
Basic Sex Ed
http://www.arkive.org/superb-bird-of-paradise/lophorina-superba/video-99a.htmlSlide17
Basic Sex Ed
Summary of the evolution of sex differences
Differences in Sex Cells
Differences in Parental Investment
Differences in the sorts of physiological & psychological mechanisms that evolveSlide18
Basic Sex Ed
Sometimes, parental involvement is reversed
Males are heavily invested, females not so much
Example: Pipefish
The male takes the eggs from the female and puts them in a pouch that plugs in to his
bloodstram
Then the female takes off
In cases like this, the females are often bigger and more aggressive than the males and they compete for the attention of the males
Penguins!
Both male and female have equal parental involvement
Both have to take care of the egg
Because they’re equally involved, penguins are usually the same sizeSlide19
Sex Differences Among Humans
How we mate
Polygamous as a species
“Serial monogamy” as a
culture
The average human male is 15% bigger than the average human female
This suggest there has been male to male competition in our evolutionary history
Which suggests there is unequal parental investment
Males are generally meaner (physically violent)
In utero, as children, as adultsSlide20
Sex Differences Among Humans
Sexual Choosiness
Do males and females differ in the extent to which they will favor anonymous sex?
Parental Investment tells us that males should be
It might result in impregnation and the spreading of genes
Doesn’t carry the same level of investment required for a female
Females have to be picky about who they mate with
Important to remember these systems evolved before birth control & vasectomies existedSlide21
Sex Differences Among Humans
Sexual Choosiness
Prostitution – almost universally a male interest
Porn – human universal
Preference for sexual variety
The Coolidge Effect
President & Mrs. Coolidge are being shown around a farm
The farm guy points out all of the hens to Mrs. Coolidge
She wonders why only one rooster? Is that enough?
The farm guy says the rooster has sex “dozens of times each day”
She says “Tell that to the President”
So he does. The President asks if the rooster has sex with the same hen every time
He doesn’t. It’s a different hen each time.
“Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge”Slide22
Sex Differences Among Humans
What does The Coolidge Effect tell us?
Males mated with a female become uninterested in further copulation
But if a new female is available the male becomes interested in copulation againSlide23
Sex Differences Among Humans
How do we find out which males are likely to fall under The Coolidge Effect?
Direct Measures
Surveys
Ask questions like “How many sexual partners would you like to have in …the next month/the next 2 years/your lifetime?”
Men answer 2/8/18
Women answer <1/1/4-5
Experiments
A very attractive man & very attractive woman approach people on a college campus (they’re actors, not people from campus, so no one knows them)Slide24
Sex Differences Among Humans
These attractive actors say “I’ve been noticing you around campus. I find you very attractive. Would you
Go out with me tonight?
Come over to my apartment tonight?
Go to bed with me tonight
?
Over ½ the women approached say Yes I’ll go out with you tonight
Very few women agree to coming over
No women agree to going to bed togetherSlide25
Sex Differences Among HumansSlide26
Sex Differences Among Humans
Men:
50% say yes to going out tonight
69% agree to coming over
75% agree to go to bed together
Of those men who say
“no”
to going to bed, 25% apologize profusely and give an excuse as to why
“My fiancé is in town
somethingsomethingsomething
”Slide27
Sex Differences Among Humans
What about sexual behavior?
Difficult to figure out by studying heterosexual sex
Men & women have different priorities for sex, which dictate their behavior
Homosexual sex happens purely out of sexual desire and is better to study to determine sexual behavior
Lesbians tend to be much more monogamous than gay men
Before AIDS, studies found gay men to be very promiscuous (often hundreds or thousands of partners)
Women don’t have this level of promiscuitySlide28
Sex Differences Among Humans
Gay men are doing exactly what the average heterosexual man would do if he had that many willing females to choose fromSlide29
Sex Differences Among Humans
What about sexual attractiveness?
P
eople
are asked “Who do you want to be with/marry/have as a partner?”
Females & Males:
kindness
and
intelligence
Females
More focus on power and status
High interest in investing in children
Males
More focus on the ability to
have
childrenSlide30
Beauty
Beauty signals 2 things
Youth
Not preschool youth, sexually mature but also young
HealthSlide31
Beauty Universals
Beauty = Youth
Large eyes
Full lips
Smooth, tight skin
Beauty = Health
Absences of deformities
Clear eyes
Unblemished skin
Intact teeth
Average faceSlide32
Social Factors for Sex Differences
Some sex differences related to aggression and mate preference are universal across humans, show up in other mammals, and follow evolutionary
theory
These differences are likely innate in us
Other sex differences have origins that are less clear
Nature vs Nurture Sex DifferencesSlide33
Social Factors for Sex Differences
Babies are treated differently depending on the gender they are
So are we as adults
Studies have shown that when an email or job application are sent in, it matters whether the name on it is John Smith or Joan Smith
People have different expectations and different reactions to males vs females
Some of you may have experienced this if you have a name that could be taken as name of the opposite genderSlide34
Social Factors for Sex Differences
Gender self-segregation
Males segregate with other males
Females segregate with other females
This happens from age 6 – 12 (Middle Childhood!)
All boy groups may enhance and exaggerate a boy’s natural aggressiveness
All girls groups may enhance and exaggerate a girl’s natural non-aggressive behaviorSlide35
Social Factors for Sex Differences
Sex differences in empathy
Men are more violent (includes murder)
More testosterone in your body may make you less social
Boys are less empathetic than girls
Problems with empathy, with social cognition, are much more frequent in men than in womenSlide36
Social Factors for Sex Differences
Autism, Asperger’s Syndrome, conduct disorders, and psychopathy are predominately male
Some think there are also sex differences in the capacity to be able to do math and science
Larry Summers, former President of Harvard
Gave a speech saying there are “issues of aptitude” in women and that’s why there aren’t many women in the science and math
fieldsSlide37
Sexual Orientation
A large majority of men are sexually attracted to women
A large majority of women are sexually attracted to men
A minority of the population is homosexual – Why?
No one knows
Overall, people do not
choose
their sexual orientation
People who are gay are often discriminated against (sometimes extremely)
Some have no wish to be gay or may even think it’s morally wrong
This makes it implausible that their sexual orientation is a conscious choiceSlide38
Sexual Orientation
Some studies have shown that gay and straight individuals are different in their sexual and romantic fantasies before they hit puberty
Is being gay built in? Sort of
When you look between identical, fraternal, and adopted siblings, then yes, there is a genetic predisposition to homosexuality
But it can’t be all genetic
If I’m a gay identical twin, the odds that my twin is also gay are 50%
If it was TRULY genetic, the odds would be 100% since we’re clonesSlide39
Sexual Orientation
Homosexuality is an evolutionary mystery
It doesn’t seem to follow biological adaptation because it does not result in reproduction
According to evolutionary adaptation view, the genes that carry homosexuality would have been weeded out by now
Those carrying those genes wouldn’t have had offspring and the genes would have died with them
And that’s why the nature vs
nurture
argument to homosexuality is such a puzzle