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The Ethical use of Self- Disclosure in Psychotherapy
Professional readings and personal exploration Slide3
Copyright Andrew R Tidrick, LCSW 2014
Goals
To be able to define self-disclosure.
To be able to define different types of self-disclosure.
To be able to identify situations associated with risk of inappropriate self-disclosure.
To identify how the concept of “standard of care” applies to self-disclosure.
To encourage therapists to study and understand their life and history to engage more fully with clients.
To develop an understanding of the likely neurobiological implications related to self-disclosure.
To create your own framework for deciding what you will disclose, to whom and in what situations.Slide4
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General rules
ALWAYS
self-disclose to help client
Analyze
yourself
, your
client
and your
setting/goal
of your work when deciding to self-disclose
Be especially cautious (maybe never!) about disclosing
sexual feelings
and
immediate personal problems
.
Be aware of all types of disclosure
Practice good self-care
Don’t be isolated in your work or lifeSlide5
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Self-Disclosure Worksheet
Therapist factors
Client factors
Setting factors
Subject/content factorsSlide6
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Definition of self-disclosure
From Bloomgarden and Menuti, a working definition of therapist self-disclosure we can use is: “
anything that is revealed about a therapist verbally, nonverbally, on purpose, by accident, wittingly, or unwittingly, inclusive of information discovered about them from another source
.”pg. 8Slide7
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Why self-disclose?
#1-Build rapport, make connection
Sharing with your client some of your “data”, your background, may help to client connect with you
Develop alliance
Clarify similarities and differences
Avoid assumptionsSlide8
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Why self-disclose?
#2-Dyadic regulation
Dan Siegel discusses the potential impact of empathy with client, “
Being empathic with patients may be more than just something that helps them “feel better” – it may create a new state of neural activation with a coherence in the moment that improves the capacity for self-regulation
.” (Siegel, 2006)Slide9
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Why self-disclose?
#3-Therapist self-care
In his book, “The Transparent Self”, Sidney Jourard states, “
Yet, the hypothesis of the book is to the effect that, while simple honesty with others (and thus to oneself) may produce scars, it is likely to be an effective preventive of both mental illness and certain kinds of physical sickness
.” (Jourard, 1971)Slide10
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What might be the connection between empathy and self-disclosure?
Self-disclosure of at least a therapist’s
authentic emotional reactions
to clients’ experiences is likely a significant portion of effective empathic responses to clients.
Perhaps a therapist’s authentic emotional responses are sufficient and self-disclosure of data and personal history is not necessary.Slide11
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Why not self-disclose?
#1-You will lose control
With regard to the taboo against therapist self-disclosure, Bloomgarden and Menuti note that there are two primary sources of this taboo:
Fear of the slippery slope-that once a therapist self-discloses
he or she will lose control and eventually have a sexual relationship with the client
. As quoted in their chapter, Zur, 2000 states, “To assert that boundary crossings [such as self-disclosure] are likely to lead to harm and sex because they statistically precede them is like saying that doctor’s visits cause death because most people see a doctor before they die.”Slide12
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Why not self-disclose?
#2-Be Freudian
Obedience to Freud
-- Essentially Freudian psychoanalytic training and tradition, which continues to be a part of many curricula for mental health professional educational programs, stipulates that self-disclosure is not a Freudian tenet. As Bloomgarden and Menuti quote from Freud, “
like a mirror, reflect nothing but what is shown
.” (Freud, 1912/1963, pg. 124Slide13
Why not self-disclose?
#3-It is self-serving
Providing effective service to clients is the priority and the standard of care.
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Types of self-disclosure
#1
Ofer Zur discusses various types of self-disclosure in his chapter, “Standard of care, ethical considerations.”
Deliberate Self-Disclosure
Verbal deliberate self-disclosure
Nonverbal deliberate self-disclosure
Deliberate Online (internet) self-disclosureSlide15
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Types of self-disclosure
#2
Nondeliberate and unavoidable self-disclosure
Unavoidable “everyday life” self-disclosure
Everyday, common self-disclosure
Nondeliberate nonverbal
Unavoidable announcement
Settings that induce unavoidable or “forced” self-disclosure
Accidental self-disclosureSlide16
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Types of self-disclosure
#3
Common investigative searches initiated by clients
Gathering information in the community
Stalking
Online searches by clients about their therapists
Reviewing professional Web sites and online resumes of therapists
Conducting a simple internet search
Joining social networks
Paying for specialized online background checks
Reading therapist’s postings on professional Listservs and in chat roomsSlide17
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Types of self-disclosure
Zur notes that
all forms of deliberate self-disclosure are either
self-revealing
-giving information or data but not opinions, reactions, etc. or
self-involving
-personal reactions to situations, events, etc.
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“The Parade of Red Flags”
“The Parade of Red Flags” to follow is a simple list, without all of the specific examples included in the book for each “Red Flag”, which can help you to assess if you feel that you have crossed or come close to crossing an ethical boundary in your work. Slide19
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“Red Flags” cont’d
“The Parade of Red Flags” from Patricia Keith-Spiegel
A Desire For A Different Relationship From Client/Psychotherapist
Rationalizing The Acceptability Of A Contemplated Boundary Crossing Or Deviation From Standard Practice
Concerns about Personal Ambition and Financial Gain
Needs for Enhancing One’s Own Self-Esteem
Expecting the Client to Fulfill your Personal or Social NeedsSlide20
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“Red Flags” cont’d
Fear of being Rejected or Client Terminating Therapy for Financial or Other Reasons
Negative Feelings Towards a Client
Signs that the Client is the More Powerful Individual in the Relationship.
Personal Life Contaminating Professional Performance
General Red FlagsSlide21
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Pros and cons of shared experiences with clients
How do you think having walked in your clients’ shoes, so to speak, strengthens or weakens your empathy and the quality of care you provide?
Clients may feel comforted when they “see” that you know what they are talking about
Therapist may assume they know what or how clients “should” feel based upon their own experiences which may give subtle message to clients to edit or change what they would have expressed naturally without the therapist’s self-disclosureSlide22
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Standard of Care #2
What a Standard of Care is
Not
:
A standard of perfection
A black and white standard
Guided by risk management principles: Clinical application of self-disclosure versus defensive medicine guidelines
Following a particular therapeutic modality
Determined by outcome: Differentiating clinical intention from impact (Ofer Zur, 2009 in Bloomgarden and Mennuti)Slide23
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The Big 2 for non-disclosure
In the book edited by Andrea Bloomgarden and Rosemary B. Menuti , in one chapter author, Karen J. Maroda, concludes that there are two types of therapist self-disclosure that “appears to be rarely, if ever, therapeutic: the disclosure of
immediate personal problems
, and the disclosure of
erotic counter transference
.” Pg 27.Slide24
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Strategies to avoid inappropriate self-disclosure
What do you do to guard against these types of self-disclosure?
Have your own therapist.
Get supervision
Have an intimate partner
Have friends
Select or deselect clients who are not suitable for you: either for your career or temporarily
Be sure to have your own support system upon which you can rely to get your needs met when you have an “immediate personal problem.”
Be proactive-if you know you are going to have a personal problem if you continue on your current path, work hard to address that issue before it blows up and begins to affect your work with your clientsSlide25
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Consideration of family history
How does a therapist’s family history affect his/her work?
What if the therapist does not know all of his/her history?
Consider Siegel/Hartzell’s concept of “coherent narrative” and its significance in parent/child attachment.Slide26
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Coherent narrative
“In
The Developing Mind
, a proposal is made that narratives that make sense of life emerge out of the blending of the left-mode drive to explain and the right-mode storage of autobiographical, social, and emotional information….When the left-mode drive to explain and the right-mode nonverbal and autobiographical processing are freely integrated, a
coherent narrative
emerges.” (Siegel & Hartzell, 2003)Slide27
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Parents and therapists
Siegel relates studies of attachment between children and parents to the relationship between therapist and client and suggests that they share some of the same relationship dynamics particularly with regard to
resiliency
and
self-regulation
. (Siegel, 2006)Slide28
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Mirror neurons, empathy and change
Siegel discusses mirror neurons, resonance, interpersonal integration and empathy as components of an effective therapeutic relationship (Siegel, 2006)
“
Being open to our own bodily states as therapists is a crucial step in establishing the interpersonal attunement and understanding that is at the heart of interpersonal integration
” (Siegel, 2006) Slide29
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Empathy
Siegel continues to say, “
Being empathic with patients may be more than just something that helps them “feel better” – it may create a new state of neural activation with a coherence in the moment that improves the capacity for self-regulation
.” (Siegel, 2006)Slide30
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“Triangles are forever”
“Triangles are forever—at least in families. Once the emotional circuitry of a triangle is in place, it usually outlives the people who participate in it. If one member of the triangle dies, another person usually replaces him. The actors come and go, but the play lives on through the generations” (Kerr, 1988)Slide31
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“It takes X generations to make an alcoholic and X generations to cure one.
In the end, in my self-disclosure to many of my clients, my message is that it may be difficult to completely change family dynamics now or individual traits quickly but each generation can make progress with commitment, consciousness and work.Slide32
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From “Buddhism and the Art of Psychotherapy” Hayao Kawai
“Two monks are on a trip. On the way they have to cross a river on foot. Whereupon a beautiful lady comes there and seems to be reluctant to step into the river. A monk immediately embraces her and crosses the river. After that the two monks separate from her, and the monks go on their way. The two walk for some time in silence. Suddenly one monk says to the other, “I have been kept thinking whether it is right or not that a Buddhist monk embrace a young woman, even though it is obviously helpful for her.” The other answers: “Yes, I embraced her but left her when we crossed the river. You, on the other hand, have been embracing her until now.”
(Kawai, 1996)Slide33
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General rules
ALWAYS
self-disclose to help client
Analyze
yourself
, your
client
and your
setting/goal
of your work when deciding to self-disclose
Be especially cautious (maybe never!) about disclosing
sexual feelings
and
immediate personal problems
.
Be aware of all types of disclosure
Practice good self-care
Don’t be isolated in your work or lifeSlide34
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