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THE POWER OF POSITIVE REGARD
Karyn Harvey, Ph.D.
kharvey@thearcbaltimore.orgSlide2
The Effects of Exclusion –
Computer game studyThe Effects of Rejection- Photo of ex’s study
Think of someone who
Accepts you as you are !Slide3
Unconditional Positive Regard
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.
Carl Rogers Slide4
The Power of Positive Regard
Mice and Bob Rosenthal
Signs were put up for experimenters “Smart Rats” “Dumb Rats” – All rats were actually the sameExperimenters had rats run mazes –
Big difference between the performances – Smart rats ran mazes twice as fast!!Slide5
Carol Dwek, Ph.d.
“How you see someone determines how they are able to see themselves!”Teachers who thought they had gifted children got a significantly better performance from classes they were told were “average”. Even though they were the same!Slide6
The POWER OF “NOT YET”!
Flip the script to the greatness of the PROCESS
What hasn’t been accomplished yet instead of what has been failed atEffort IS Achievement! Hope trumps everythingDo we shut people downBy being too goal oriented? Slide7
“
ASSUME INTELLIGENCE”
William
Stillman
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Multiple types of Intelligence – Dr. Howard Gardner
Visual-Spatial
- think in terms of physical space, as do architects and sailors. Very aware of their environments. They like to draw, do jigsaw puzzles, read maps, daydream
.Bodily-kinesthetic - use the body effectively, like a dancer or a surgeon. Keen sense of body awareness. They like movement, making things, touching. They communicate well through body language.Musical
- show sensitivity to rhythm and sound. They love music, but they are also sensitive to sounds in their environments. Slide9
Interpersonal - understanding, interacting with others.
They have many friends, empathy for others, awareness of others. Great with people and animals!Intrapersonal - understanding one's own interests, goals. They tend to shy away from others. They're in tune with their inner feelings; they have wisdom, intuition and self motivation
Linguistic - using words effectively. These learners have highly developed auditory skills and often think in words. They like reading, playing word games, making up poetry or stories. They love to talk! Logical -Mathematical
- reasoning, calculating. Numbers make more sense than words! They like to order things and understand things in sequences. Slide10
Daniel KishSlide11
Who is This? Slide12
Finding Your Purpose!Slide13
Resiliency Studies Slide14
The Ingredients for Positive Regard
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.Positive Regard:BELIEVE!
Language of Positive Regard Provide Opportunities for Growth Praise Character2.LISTEN! Sit down and listen to me for 10 minutes every day!
Let the person get it all out before you give advice!3. COACH! Use a coaching or mentoring model Respect individuals while fostering skills Encourage and praise efforts! Slide15
Focus on WHO a person is – NotWHAT a person is!
No one wants to be a label!Slide16Slide17
Thank You So Much, All of you Wonderful People!!
kharvey@thearcbaltimore.org
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