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Fostering Self-Esteem in Children
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Fostering Self-Esteem in Children
is used to describe a person's overall sense of self-worth or personal value.
can involve a variety of beliefs about the self, such as the appraisal of one's own appearance, beliefs, emotions and behaviors.
What is the
daily ratio of positive, encouraging words that you say to your children, compared to the number of complaints, orders, criticisms, warnings, and discouraging words?
Research on Family Communication
has repeatedly confirmed the fact that we spend very little time actually talking with our children (less than 20 minutes a day, on average) and that when we do speak to them, it's more often to register a complaint, a command, or a request for
It seems we're not talking with our children very much – and when we do say something to them, it's not likely to increase their sense of self-worth
We can change this type of parent-child interaction by changing how and why we speak with our children every day.
Our focus must shift from reminding them and reprimanding them for what they are doing
to reminding them and showing them how much they are loved, appreciated, and valued.
doesn't mean that you don't tell them when they're wrong. But it does mean that we can't let them think that they are invisible except when they make a
Academic & Social Success
child's feelings of self-worth are linked to social and academic
Research shows that children with learning disabilities are especially likely to suffer from a lack of self-esteemAll children benefit when their parents take steps to help them develop positive feelings of self-worth
How Can You Help?
Help your child feel special and
aside "special times" during the week alone with each one of your children.
During these special times, focus on things that your child enjoys doing so that he or she has an opportunity to relax and to display his or her strengths.
Help Your Child Develop Problem-Solving Skills
self-esteem is associated with solid problem-solving skills.
example, if your child is having difficulty with a friend, ask him or her
a couple of ways
to solve the problem.
situations with your child
is a helpful way to demonstrate
the steps involved in problem solving.
Avoid Comments that are Judgmental
example, a comment that often sounds
is, "Try harder and put in more of an effort.”Many
children do try hard and still have difficulty. Instead say, "We have to figure out better strategies to help you learn." Children are less defensive when the problem is cast as strategies that must be changed rather than as something deficient with their motivation. This approach also reinforces problem-solving skills
Be an Empathetic Parent
parents, out of their own frustration, have been heard to say such things as, "Why don't you listen to me?" or "Why don't you use your brain?"
your child is having difficulty with learning, it is best to be empathetic and say to your child that you know he or she
is having difficulty; then you can cast the difficulty into a problem to be solved and involve your child in thinking about possible solutions.
will also minimize power struggles. For example, ask your child if
he or she
would like to be reminded five or ten minutes before the bus arrives. These beginning choices help to set the foundation for a feeling of control over one's life.
Do Not Compare Siblings
is important not to compare siblings and to highlight the strengths of all children in your family
children see themselves in a negative way, especially in terms of school. Make a list of your child's areas
of strength. Select one of these
and find ways of reinforcing and displaying it. For example, if your child is a wonderful artist, display
his or her
Provide Opportunities for Children to Help
opportunities for children to help is a very concrete way of
that they have something to offer their world. Involving your child in charitable work is just one possible example. Helping others certainly boosts your child's self-esteem
Have Realistic Expectations
Realistic expectations and goals
provide your child with a sense of control.
your child has a learning disability, help your child to understand the nature of
his or her learning disability.
Having realistic information can give your child a greater sense of control and a feeling that things can be done to help the situation.
be at the core of your communication with your children. It should be your primary intention for talking with your kids.
and showing our children how much we love and appreciate who they are can become a daily habit. Make an effort to do so every day.
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